Seeing another as yourself is the key to healing relationships. Ma Jaya Sati Bhagavati said that in some Native American tribes there is no word for I; they only have words for we. I believe in win/win outcomes. But to have a win/win outcome, means that we need to focus on what we really, really want. A Course in Miracles says that what we really, really want is peace. It also says that when peace is all you want, that's what you'll see.

Non-attachment means relinquishing attachments to tangibles. Everything tangible in this world will one day disappear. It's the intangibles, love, peace, forgiveness, compassion, mercy that have lasting effects. We carry them with us from life time to life time.

Be kind to each other. That's the only thing that's important.